Saturday, July 23, 2011

wish, i had a remote....



Forgive me friends... I know, I have been such a bad blogger during last couple of weeks and it seems like I have totally abandoned my blog space as I am not even able to respond on your valuable comments here....No excuses, but its all only because of some personal n social responsibilities coming in between me n blogging... 

And while trying  to perform all those responsibilities properly and to the best of my ability n capacity, just wish if I had a remote control like thing for my own life, so that i would rewind my life to the time when I was about 8 or 10 years old....when Mom used to provide all those lovely things which i liked most to have and Dad was paying my School fees...... In short life was just perfect for me.

But now, I am grown up n have to perform so many roles, all my dear ones expect me to behave like a responsible guy. Whenever there is an issue in the family, I often called on to give my opinion... I know, its all their love n affection for me, but going through all these sometimes i just want to curl up between my Mom n Dad and fall asleep without any worries as both of them would be there to take care of every thing around.

hhmmm... I know it is all just too much of feeling......and all will be well.... I will be fine too in next couple of days.......

In the mean time, I am just trying to go through all your new Blog posts, though sometimes I could only manage to read them and somehow not able to leave my comment there.... But its really an awesome experience to know so many people through their written work. In fact, I am in love to your writing styles and your approach towards different shades n colours of life. Believe me in about seven months of blogging I feel so glad to have so many nice friends here, as you all know yourselves so mentioning name is not required and you all are blessings in different ways.

Hope you all are having a wonderful weekend with your dear ones at your respective places.

Love n Regards.....
irfan.

Nahin fursat yaqeen maano hamien kuch aur karney ki...
Uljhanein Zindagi ki hamien kuch yun masroof rakhti hain...


55 comments:

  1. Hmm,sometimes this thought comes into my mind too. What if, I had a remote to control all incidents of my life? Sounds interesting but unfortunately it's an impossible task! :(
    No worries we can control a little bit of our present time with the help of our will power!

    Really me too in 9 months of my blogging learned so many things and sometimes your articles helps to me have a burning discussions with people around me :) ..thank you so much !!
    Keep Blogging and smiling

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  2. A sensitive and honest post by someone like all of us out here. We all go through these turbulent times and family and friends help and support us, keep us safe. Your troubles will be over soon, All will be well.

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  3. Thanks for sharing sir. No problem at all. Even I am going through same phase. So now can manage only Saturday.

    It's really a nice way you have conveyed your thoughts.

    Thank you so much for being with us.

    For me I don't feel sad if my friends can't comment on my each post, especially when I know they trust me and my work. I understand responsibilities in today's fastest life. We could have someone like VICI of small wonder with us........I wish! :)

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  4. I can relate to what you are saying Irfan,I can do anything to rewind,and become a child with no worries once again.No other option,but to carry on..What is life? Look around you for a second. Life is what happens to you right now, while you are reading this. Thats you. Thats life.

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  5. Irfan, you are one of the sincerest blogger I've met. Praises and gratefulness reciprocated. Just do what you think is needed first.

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  6. Nothing has to come between you and your peace of mind Irfan. I think the tension is created within because we want to do all things all at the same time and give solutions to something that can't be resolved overnight. It takes time so be patient. You have your own priorities and schedules. So discern what needs to be done ahead. Writing might be a passion and it'll come naturally without force and haste.

    Remember Mo. Teresa? We are called to be faithful not successful ;)...

    So live life one day at a time. God bless and take care.

    I wish you peace :)

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  7. Welcom back IRFAN!
    Your mature thoughts are inspiring: As long as you have a good handle on certain issues, you are doing fine.
    May God bless you with more success in future.AMEN

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  8. Irfan! It is so nice to know guys also feel just like girls do - to be back with Mom and Dad without any worries.

    Glad to be friends with you too.

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  9. Nahin fursat yaqeen maano ..........
    wah wah! lovely!

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  10. @Simran : yaa, interesting but impossible... good to know that these topics are being discussed even off the net.... thank you so much Simran for being so supportive here.

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  11. @Sulekha : oh yes...our family n friends does have a major role to improve such things... thanks for the wishes n support :)

    @Mohinee : wow...KAASH we could have that VICI, butttttttttt we can't :( ... thanx for being here always !!!

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  12. @Alpana Jaiswal : hhmmmm...fortunately or unfortunately there is no other option.... and this is what life is all about, take it as it comes....at the moment trying to do that only... thank you Alpana ji for being so regular here and often so appreciative too :)


    @Blognostics : Thank you so much for the encouragements, plz do come again...!!!

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  13. @melissa : you are very right, but at times it becomes so difficult n troublesome to remain at one single thing....but, yaa if we start taking things with their priority we can avoid such situations....

    Thank you so much for the blessings n wishes Melissa...you know it matters a lot...!!!

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  14. @Tariq Mian : Shukriyaa Tariq Bhai for ur wishes n blessings...plz keep pouring ur love same way here at my space.... Thankx a lot..!!!


    @NRIGirl : Believe me Guys are no way less when it comes to "Love n Affection" for parents....only difference is perhaps we keep it to ourselves and not very expressive at times.... Thank you so much...hope to see you here same way...!!!


    @Sujatha Sathya : THanks for the read n appreciations :)

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  15. @IRFANUDDIN: You haven't follow my blog that's why my posts are not showing in your dash board... :)

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  16. @Asma Khan : and i thought i was.....anyways following it now.... :)

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  17. yes, a Remote Control like that would be so good. I could then relive the carefree and happy life I spent as a child. Also, it will give me a chance to undo / redo so many things / decisions that I regret now!

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  18. Oh it's okay Irfan..Don't feel bad, it normally happens — that we get busy in our daily lives once in a while. I hope everything turns well at your end.

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  19. I can sympathize with you Irfan because I am often in that situation where I want to just run away and hide. I hope you can come back and devote more time to your blog soon.

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  20. At some or the other point in time we all have wished for that remote control... Sometimes to rewind and sometimes to fast forward.... Sigh! As for not being able to give enough time to blogging and then feeling a bit guilty about it, trust me I understand it pretty well....

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  21. irfanji, we all go through the same phase as of yours. responsibilities increase as we grow up. our parents start depending on us and we on our loved ones. but still at some point it is the pressure of mind and the increasing number of responsibilities that need a shed, a place to rest. we feel the urge of a remote control to make our life easy. i can relate to you. don't worry, just put your hand across your chest and say "all is well". smile and see everything will work out accordingly. we are all with you. we all support and love you.

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  22. Isn't it strange that when we are eight or ten years old we want to grow up but when we are grown up we want to go back to childhood. I can fully understand your involvement with life that keeps you away from your blog. But then where else will you get the " Masala" if not from Zindagi?

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  23. no problem..I can understand ,,,my kids are too young and I end up getting frustrated..wish life could be more easy and versatile rather then monotonous..But I guess our parents did same ...with-us and we are now in their shoes.
    ..smile and cheer up//life is full of surprises.

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  24. जिंदगी ने कुछ इस कदर उल्जा दिया हमें
    हम जो थे वोह न रहे
    और जो हैं वोह कभी न थे
    कभी सुकून से बतौनगा आप बीती
    अभी अभी कुछ फिर यूँ उल्जा दिया हमें :)

    (कमझोर कड़ी)

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  25. We all have been there now and then .Take your time and don't worry about commenting on blogs .We understand and are always here for you .Have a smooth week ahead .Holding good thoughts for you :)

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  26. Irfan, I think a lot of us who blog do find us in your shoes at one time or the other. Its life and we need to take it the way we need to. Don't worry.. We completely understand your situation. Hope you had a good weekend too.

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  27. oh yes, most of us have such blogger moments. Good luck and god be with you for whatever tasks you want to accomplish and btw if you find one such remote or time machine, please send one my way too.:)

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  28. as a teenager i wish i could grow up as soon as possible but i know, then i shall want my childhood back.human nature:)

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  29. ahhh Irfan this was cute really...i had the same wish these days,,em back here after so many days and i have missed so much! em trying to read every post and its taking time..then em late to comment you know..people have already commented almost every possible comment there...for example look at your page..you already have 28 commetns! and em late..bt still i know whatever i say , will matter to you..so em saying it...its ok by my side..i wont mind if you will not comment on my posts..i understand you are a busy man...but it should nt be for that long you know..atleast leave your signs that you have visited my page!!kidding..relax...seriously its ok...i know you are there and you do read my posts..so its fine if you aint able to comment..i have all the free time in the world ..i will comment on yours regularly:-)

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  30. Irfan,

    It is okay. Take your time & write when you can. We are in the same boat. I write only when I get time. I was on vacation earlier and could post a new one after 2 weeks.

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  31. Of course, that happens to all bloggers. One does get busy and has no time to spare.

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  32. I think your readers understand the fact that sometimes its difficult to reply due to paucity of time...Chill.

    One remote in Sonias hand is enough for the nation.

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  33. yes its wish and desire of every human

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  34. I think if given an opportunity,few of us would love to go back to being a kid,carefree and stressfree.Most of us would try to find that moment when life just changed.hehehhe...Actually I get what you're saying Irfan.Not easy being a grownup contrary to popular belief,Ahhhgh ! I would wish to be that shy 13 year old dancing by the beach at my nena's home.Finish with your stuff and come back when you have time to spare.

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  35. You have been there in the blogger only for the last seven months..? Surprising..Because, your posts and their diversity have already acquired a place in my heart

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  36. irfan ..its always a pleasure reading your post and i do look forward ot reading them , i am sorry too that I am getting quiet late inwriting a comment each time .. but i always make sure i read ..

    Regarding the respinsibilities and stuff well I understand it so very much , you will be surprised to know that I am the only male left in my dad's side family now .. so every decision and anything to do with anything has to be decided by me , even when I have told everyone that they are adults and are free to make the decision , why they need me involved in anything .. I dont have a clue . it looks like that in my family the Male mann's dont live that long :)

    I too would love to go back to the day where i would throw a tantrum and ask my dad for something if he said no then Granddad was there and he would never say no .. I wish i wish ..

    Blogging has helped a lot as you said I have made such lovely human beings friends that its a relief sometimes to pen out a article and then read what you all say and that brings a smile ..

    You take care irfaan and anything I can ever do or help Just shout ..

    all the best and the two lines you have said SIR JI BEAUTIFUL ... :)

    Bikram's

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  37. well irfan sahab i would suggest something filmi "jab life ho out control to hotho ko karke gol seethi baje baja ke bol all izzzzzzz well".....
    ....
    and u know what when once akbar asked birabl to say something that will make him happy when he is sad, and sad when is happy birbal replied "tis time will pass away"...

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  38. Awards waiting for you on my page;-)

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  39. @Gautam yes, reliving those wonderful moments is something we all perhaps want... thank you Gautam.


    @Cee Thanks for the wishes...!!

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  40. @Rimly : Thank you very much for the care n support, it does matter a lot to me...


    @Tanishka : Good to see back in blogging and yes at times we do feel like looking for that remote.... thank you.

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  41. @Sancheeta Biswas : yes.... "ALL IS WELL" :) and thanks for all love n suppost, it really gives a nice feeling having so many nice friends around whenever needed....thank you so much.

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  42. @Meera Sundararajan : yes, human nature you know, "KISI BAAT MEIN CHAIN NAHI" :)
    and yes i always look for some "masala" from day 2 day life, but off late nothing much happening to post here you know.... just wish to get some Masala soon :)

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  43. @Harman : :) thank you so much !!!


    @Rachit : yes Rachit जिंदगी हमें कभी-कभी कुछ यूं ही उलझा देती है और हम क्या से क्या हो जाते हैं Thank you !!!

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  44. @Kavita : Thank you so much for the wishes..!!!


    @Haritha : ya, human nature of never ever feeling satisfied...Thank you.

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  45. @Ashvini : yes, at times we all go through such phase....thank you Aswini.


    @Asha : hehe.. i am still looking for one, hopefully whenever get will send to you for sure...:)

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  46. @Mishi : well, whether its after 28 comments or 280 comments it always matters and i personally look for ur comments here at my post....just wish that you remain free same way and keep reading n commenting here at my space and btw thank you so much for being so regular here.

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  47. @A : yes, you are right but at times i feel guilty for not reciprocating here same way as our friends do...thank you.


    @Rachna : Thank you rachna ji.


    @Vijay Menon : hehe i wish you get one :)

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  48. @Alka Gurha : But the one i need is for better cause perhaps.... thank you.


    @sm : and some wishes always remain a wish only.

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  49. @Suzy : and how about pretending to be of 13...try it out n just see how you feel???
    btw welcome here at mt space...hope to see you more often now.


    @Tomz : yes sirji i started here in DEC 2010....hope to get your love n affection same way...Thank you.

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  50. @Bikramjit : thank you so much Bikram for taking out the time from ur busy schedule and commenting every time on whatever nonsense i pen here....

    i think its their faith n trust on you that make them dependent on you, yaa sometimes it does give an irritation buttttt again after all they all are our own.....

    and thanks for all the concern you have for me, it really feels so good to have such a nice friend like you around...thank you, thank you so much Bikram :)

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  51. @Rolling Stone : yes, time is passed n "ALL IS WELL"....btw How you doing??? nice to see you here after a long gap.


    @Mishi : thank you so much Mishi for that honor... :)

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  52. Ramadan Kareem...Irfan saab.Tried being a 13 year old,afsos,no beach,noone to do all my chores,no nena in this world....Am Busy with ramadan now.How is it out there? DO write in your blog?

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  53. For our parents we are always kids however grown. That’s so sweet when u say "i just want to curl up between my Mom n Dad and fall asleep without any worries...". Glad to know u too having a loving family.

    That’s true feeling about blogs and friends which I had been a lot on this. Hope to be around as a friend too:)

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